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| Chalo and Luisa Valdez
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Giving of yourself and demanding nothing in return is
one of the true meanings of the word friendship. While true friendship among
your peers is common, having friendships with people of all ages is admirable.
This is the case of this week's couple who have become true friends to many in
this community, especially the children - Mrs. Luisa and Mr. Gonzalo (Chalo)
Valdez. Luisa and Chalo grew up in the village of
San Pedro and developed an interest in each other. The dating period, they
recall, was a strict one since in those days young women would be accompanied by
their parents to the few town functions. Nevertheless, with serenades and by
proving his love for Luisa, Chalo convinced her parents to accept him as her
future husband. Luisa and Chalo recall the five years of their romantic
courtship as the best moments of their lives; they were finally joined in
marriage on April 18th, 1970.
Their marriage produced two children, Conchita Flota and Gonzalo Jr. Since they
were blessed with only two children, in a time when married couples thought that
having a large family was better, they shared their parental love with the
children of San Pedro as well as their own. For many
years, Luisa dedicated herself to the domestic chores while Chalo earned a
living in the fishing industry. Although she was a dedicated mother and wife,
Luisa felt she wanted to do something more with her spare time. In 1982, the
couple opened a small grocery store on the corner of Tarpon Street and Barrier
Reef Drive which they called Conchita's Little Store. Although this store
offered an assortment of groceries, it was the kids they catered to. Having
young children of their own, Luisa and Chalo knew exactly what younger people
liked. They started selling raspados (snow cones), golden plums, oranges, chips
and candies to the children of San Pedro Roman Catholic School which was
adjacent to their store. Although Chalo still went on his fishing trips he would
be happy to help in the store upon his return. Unfortunately, increasing
competition took its toll and after only two years in business the Valdez's
closed their little shop. However, they missed being with the children, so Luisa
and Chalo decided to set up a table just outside the school yard where they
continued to supply the children with their goodies. They did not think of this
as a business but as a hobby. On countless occasions when the children did not
have enough money to buy their treats both Luisa and Chalo would still provide
them. Sadly, during this time Chalo fell ill and had to
be taken for emergency surgery. Due to the long recuperation period and under
doctor's advice, Chalo could not return to fishing for a living. In order to
help with the household expenses, Lulu, as many of Luisa's friends call her,
started offering room and board to out-district people working in San Pedro.
Their children also chipped in to assist them. Although they went through rough
times, Lulu and Chalo always welcomed a friend for lunch or dinner. Their
generosity over the years has been beyond compare.
Tragically, on December 17 th
of last year, a fire destroyed their home and all their belongings, leaving them
homeless. This was when their years of generosity were rewarded. The community
quickly came to their aid and soon after, a new home had been built for Lulu,
Chalo and their family. Even though they were now struggling to get back on
their own feet, they still never failed to donate to town
activities. Even during their times of trial and
suffering, Lulu and Chalo have proven that caring for and loving one another
will take you far. They continue to share their love with friends and to put
happy faces on many children. They are fine examples of the "strong family
values" in "Our Community."
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